Hurting People, Hurt People

how to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coathow to wear a winter coatHealing cannot come to a desperate person rummaging through other people’s lives. One of the first things that a hurting person needs to do is break the habit of using other people as a narcotic to numb the aching of an inner void.  The more you medicate the symptoms, the less chance you have of allowing God to help you.  The other destructive tendency that can exist with any abuse is the person must keep increasing the dosage.  Avoid addictive, obsessive relationships.  If you are becoming increasingly dependent upon anything other than God to create a sense of wholeness in your life, then you are abusing your relationships.  Clinging to people is far different from loving them. It is not so much a  statement of your love for them as it is a crying out of your need for them.  Like lust, it is intensely selfish.  It is taking and not giving.  Love is giving.  God is love.  God proved His love not by His need of us, but by His giving to us….

The Scriptures plainly show that the infirmed woman who touched Jesus in the crowd had tried to lift herself.  People who stand on the outside can easily criticize and assume that the infirmed woman lacks effort and fortitude.  That is not always the case.  Some situations in which we can find ourselves defy willpower.  We feel unable to change.  The Scriptures say that she “could in no wise lift up herself.”  That implies she had employed various means of self-ministry.  Isn’t it amazing how the same people who lift up countless others, often cannot lift themselves?  This type of person may be a tower of faith and prayer for others, but impotent when it comes to her limitations.  That person may be the one others rely upon.  Sometimes we esteem others more important than ourselves.  We always become the martyr.  It is wonderful to be self-sacrificing but watch out for self-disdain.  If we don’t apply some of the medicine that we use on others to strengthen ourselves, our patients will be healed and we will be dying.

During the holidays we often forget that there are many hurting people out there.  I felt like someone needed to hear this today!  God bless you!

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2 thoughts on “Hurting People, Hurt People

  1. Very cute outfit Leslie! I definitely need to take care of myself more in this New Year, and increasing my love for myself and others. Thanks for the reminder. 🙂 #styleWERKshop

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