Burned Biscuits

Something borrowed from my dear friend, Sharon…I loved this so much that I felt compared to share it.

 When I was a kid, my Mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then.   And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my Mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!

Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my Mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don’t remember what I told him that night,but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that ugly burned biscuit. He ate every bite of that thing…. never made a face nor uttered a word about it!  When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my Mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I’ll never forget what he said: “Honey, I love burned biscuits every now and then.”

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, “Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she’s real tired. And besides – a little burned biscuit never hurt anyone!”

As I’ve grown older, I’ve thought about that many times. Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I’m not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else.  But what I’ve learned over the years is that learning to accept each other’s faults and choosing to celebrate each others differences – is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

And that’s my prayer for you today… that you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God.  Because in the end, He’s the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn’t a deal-breaker!  

Understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!”Don’t put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket – keep it in your own.”

 So, please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burned one will do just fine.

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15 thoughts on “Burned Biscuits

  1. I love the look, quote and the message.

    Thanks for the message! It’s something I can hold on to for now and the future.

  2. Nice Story….Every now and then when I burned the rice for dinner and apologize, my husband answer is “I love burned rice and I love you”, my response is usually “What da?”. Then I wonder is man for real, yes he is. So was your dad. like you said take the good, bad and ugly…its too petty to ruin any relationship. God Bless and enjoy your day.

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