Stroke of Luck

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For some, the new year brings with it hopes for the future, a fresh start pr a time to turn over a new leaf.  Sadly, for others, the new year brings resentment towards people and things that didn’t fall into the perfect plan they had concocted.  Everything didn’t go quite as planned.

I wonder how many of us stop to understand that sometimes not getting what we want can be a blessing.  Not getting what we want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of good luck, because it forces us to reevaluate things and before we know it,  new doors to opportunities are opening and experiences you would have otherwise overlooked suddenly becomes clear as day.

What am I saying?  The next time you begin to count all the many “unanswered” prayers you’ve sent up, stop and realize that God always answers prayers.  The answer may not be what you had envisioned, but God always answers.

// earrings: vintage // jacket: DKNY // tennies: Nike Airmax //

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Bright, Beautiful and Belgian

I had such a wonderful opportunity to get together with two BEAUTIFUL ladies I adore for some long overdue girl time.  For you tweet geeks, I had brunch with @BPSkit and @IamNichelle.  Absolute dolls!  We chatted over brunch at The Coffee Company in Westchester.  I ordered BELGIAN waffles, eggs scrambled with cheese, bacon and coffee (of course).  Dee-lish!  Thanks hubs for holding down the fort while I enjoyed my girls!

Our conversation led to some constructive criticism of my blog.  Truth be told, I’m the one that cries in the car when constructive criticism is a little too critical.  But, I asked for it.  I want to know what readers want to hear.  I surf blogs now and then and read what bloggers have to say.  Some blogs have some juicy reads, others are overflowing with ads, while others are purely visual. I struggle to strike a balance.  I want you, as a reader, to know me but I dont want to bore.  Anyway, our conversation was fruitful and I’m glad I asked.

Still, I’d love to know more.  Leave me a comment with a suggestion, piece of advice or even a question you’re curious about.

Grey Poupon Anyone?

Be honest. Does my blazer look super mustardy? I kinda feel like it does, but I kinda love it.  I’ve had a few request to list the items that I wear every day, but truth be told, many pieces of my wardrobe are vintage boutique finds.  I don’t love crowds, lines, or people asking if I need help every 5 minutes.  I’d rather shop in solitude and I find that small hole in the wall vintage boutiques offer just that.  With that said, what you see is kind of what you get, but you are certainly more than welcome to send me a note.  I’ll always respond.   

 I cant leave you without expressing my gratitude to all of you who have been following my blog, leaving comments, participating in my TomBoLA and sending me emails

When I started this thing back in March of 2009, I never expected it to have such a rewarding impact on my life.  It’s given this wife and mother of two an outlet of creativity, which I am grateful for.  Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment.  You’ve been a blessing!

Happy Friday Friends!