Leave Them Alone

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I don’t like to argue.  In fact, I pretty much do anything to avoid an arguement.  Notice I said “arguement”.  I’m the ultimate strategist when it comes to disagreements.  Take for instance when the Hubs and I don’t see eye to eye, I’m usually the one to drop it.  Not because I’m wrong, but because 9 times out of 10, it’s just not that serious and being right isn’t that important.  If a conversation lingers in my spirit, then I know I need to talk it out with him, but only when the time’s right and he’s receptive.  A note to the wives, make it your mission to know when, where and how to talk to your husband and always, always do it with the respect he deserves as your husband, the man you married.

So, what’s the take away?  Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. There are many roads to what’s right. And most of the time it just doesn’t matter that much.  Leave petty arguments alone.

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9 thoughts on “Leave Them Alone

  1. Great advice! This reminds me of a few of the messages that I’ve heard from Joyce Meyer. It’s so important to choose your battles. I’ll keep this in mind when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend! :-)

  2. Amen. My hubby is shocked at how fast I shut down an argument now. What used to linger for days is now done in a matter of minutes. I’ve learned to pick my battles and let the petty stuff die. Life is too short.

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